“Anti-oppressive” “friend” 

Said to me, black femme on Juneteenth when I said I was sad and crying she forgot Juneteenth and reminded her she hurt me often:

“This has changed now from repairing a situation where I hurt you to something where we have both hurt each other, and engaging in a mutual repair process is terrifying for me. I need time to get myself ready for that. At this point I can’t even go into details yet about the ways I am hurt.”

She took the time to surprise block me…


re: “Anti-oppressive” “friend” 

@noyovo I’m still trying to understand then I realise there is no understanding this. I just need to listen to people who try to warn me a lot faster.

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